Posts Tagged ‘i am that’

Self-Love Isn’t Narcissism

Monday, December 7th, 2009

Many of us know the story of Narcissus — the boy who drowned because he fell in love with his reflection in a lake, and jumped in hoping to embrace his image.  At first glance, this story seems to be about the dangers of loving yourself too much.  If Narcissus had only taken his attention [...]

Can Socializing Be Effortless?

Sunday, June 15th, 2008

I used to be what many people call an “introvert.”  I usually preferred being alone to being in social situations.  When I did socialize, I’d enjoy myself for a little while, but I’d start getting tired quickly.  Interacting with people seemed like hard work—doing it felt more like meeting an obligation than hanging out and [...]

Simplifying Your Fears, Part Three: Transcending Your Boundaries

Friday, June 6th, 2008

I believe many of our fears, career-related or otherwise, stem from a misperception of ourselves as small and weak.  We see ourselves as too fragile to deal with possible setbacks in our jobs, confrontations in our relationships, medical issues, and so on.  Even if we know it’s not rational, many of us have the deep-seated anxiety [...]

You Are Not Your Memories

Friday, March 14th, 2008

I recently had an interesting experience while waking up in the morning that I think it would be valuable to share.  Sometimes, when I first open my eyes after sleeping, I get the sense that I don’t remember who I am.  In that instant, I feel like I have no memory of what I’ve accomplished [...]